Ok, I used mkfs to format the entire drive in ext4 but it only created a 2TB partition.
I tried to expand it in kde partition manager, but kept coming up with error messages.
I couldn't even create a separate partition in ext4, it would only let me use the rest of that space if I used ext3.
I looked up ext4 on wikipedia and it should be good till you get to 1EB?
The hard drive was listed as " 3TB Western Digital 3.5" 5400rpm SATA 6Gb/s HDD PN WD30EZRX" where I got it.
so is there a trick to getting more then 2TB's?